Begin by changing all passwords for your computer and online accounts to protect your digital security. Install security features in your home, such as cameras, alarms, or additional locks. If the perpetrator has ever had access to a key, change the locks on all doors to prevent unauthorized entry.
Inform your neighbors that the perpetrator no longer lives in your home and ask them to call the police if they see the perpetrator nearby. Take steps to protect your personal information, including your address, workplace, and your children’s schools. Notify your children’s school or daycare about the situation to ensure they are aware of any safety concerns.
To reduce the risk of being followed or found, change your routine. Shop, bank, and conduct personal business at locations you did not previously visit with the perpetrator. Store important personal items, such as diaries, journals, personal letters, and calendars, in a secure place outside of your home.
If you have a restraining order, keep copies in multiple locations, such as your vehicle, handbag, and home. Share copies with trusted family members or friends. Additionally, prepare for a quick departure by keeping money, a spare set of keys, and a “go bag” with essential items in a safe location or with a trusted friend or family member. Identify a close friend or family member with whom you can stay in case of an emergency.
To maintain safety, avoid contact with the perpetrator. Screen all telephone calls and refrain from opening mail that does not have a return address.
